I recently realized that I had been neglecting to care for myself in some pretty basic ways. This is easy to do when life gets stressful, but sometimes we all need a nudge to do better for ourselves. Sometimes, self care looks more like everyday discipline in caring for ourselves so that we are well enough to care for others. Today I share you with some nudges to help you self care.
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“You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in You.”- St. Augustine
I recently realized that I had been neglecting to care for myself in some pretty basic ways. The end result was that I was suffering chronic headaches and neck and back pain. This is unusual for me, and so I thought a bit about what might be causing it. That was when I realized that I have been avoiding working out and not getting enough rest. This is easy to do when life gets stressful, but sometimes we all need a nudge to do better for ourselves. Sometimes, self care looks more like everyday discipline in caring for ourselves so that we are well enough to care for others.
Here are some nudges I want to give you today:
Are you moving your body every day? Getting some basic forms of exercise? One Youtube I especially like for on-the-go, not-too-long workouts is Joe the Body Coach.
- Eat well
I won’t tell you how to eat, but we all know when we are not feeding ourselves well. Do you need to cut down on sugar or processed foods? Do you need to limit your alcohol or caffeine. For those who might be struggling with or wondering about the role alcohol plays in their lives, I recommend the book This Naked Mind: Control Alcohol, Find Freedom, Discover Happiness, and Change Your Life by Annie Grace.
- Get some sleep
Are you getting enough rest? Sometimes self care looks like having the discipline to take a nap in the day or to go to bed at a reasonable time. Take care of yourself like you would your own toddler by getting the rest you need.
Does your financial situation stress you out? Do you avoid looking into your finances because you are afraid of what you might find there? Are you in denial about credit card debt or other problems? Stop avoiding and take care of this. Take one small step toward finding peace in your financial situation. Compass Catholic Ministries is one resource that can help you get started.
You knew I was going to say this … you need prayer in your life! You can use the free daily Gospel prayer resources at CatholicMom.com or some other structure. The book series I love and recommend is The Better Part by Fr. John Bartunek.
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A writer, speaker, wife, and mother, Danielle helps women from all walks of life discover their dignity and worth so they can find peace, balance, and joy in family living. Danielle has been married to her husband Dan for 28 years, and together they have eight amazing children.
Danielle is host of The Gist, a talk show for women on CatholicTV, and author of several books, including You Are Enough: What Women of the Bible Teach You About Your Mission and Worth and Momnipotent: The Not-so Perfect Guide to Catholic Motherhood, as well as her latest book, Whisper: Finding God in the Everyday.
Thank you As a non-Catholic ..and continuing self-study in Catholicism, I find myself becoming more ‘restless’. Thank you for sharing the practicals for “body, mind, and soul”