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Jan 21, 2019

Look, Love, and Challenge

Colin MacIver

We all want to speak the truth with love and walk the line between being a habitual enabler and a judging Pharisee. In the Gospels, Jesus carried out this task of admonishing the sinner with three steps: looking, loving, and challenging.

  • Look – see the person as they truly are, with full acknowledgement of their wrongdoing.
  • Love – remember that they are loved and deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.
  • Challenge – challenge them to do better for themselves, which will ultimately make them happier.

We see these steps in action in John 8:3-11, when Jesus interacts with the woman caught in the act of adultery.

“…and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. Jesus looked up and said to her, ‘Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?’ She said, ‘No one, Lord.’ And Jesus said, ‘Neither do I condemn you; go, and do not sin again.’ ”

When Jesus meets the woman, he looks her in the eye, shows her compassion and mercy, and then challenges her by saying, “go, and do not sin again.”

This method of truth spoken in love (look, love, and challenge) is a great way to carry out the spiritual work of mercy of admonishing the sinner.

“Do not accept anything as the truth if it lacks love. And do not accept anything as love which lacks truth! One without the other becomes a destructive lie.” -St. Edith Stein (source)

For more tips on admonishing the sinner, check out Fr. Josh’s podcast.

Meet Your Host, Colin MacIver:

Colin MacIver, host of the Tightrope podcast, with his family

Colin is an enthusiastic transplant to vibrant Louisiana, where he lives with his beautiful wife Aimee and two energetic children, Leo and Zélie. His juggling act involves being a husband, a dad, a teacher, a youth minister, a musician and a national Ascension content creator and trainer.

In his spare time, he eats too many crawfish, savors king cake, plays one-on-one kickball with his son, and tries, for the life of him, to properly load the dishwasher.

Check out Colin’s latest work with Ascension:  Power and Grace: A Guide to the Catholic Sacraments and Quick Catholic Lessons with Fr. Mike.


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