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Dec 15, 2016

Have We Forgotten Why Santa Matters?

David Kilby

In recent years, my interest in Santa Claus has returned with renewed wonder. Around this time in December, I rewatch nostalgic movies about the guy, and ponder how he might manage filling millions of stockings around the world in one night. Yes, I know, at my age I shouldn’t be sustaining such childlike fascinations because, after all, the man doesn’t really exist. Ironically though, the whole “Santa doesn’t exist” spiel never satisfied my curiosity about him. He doesn’t exist as I had hoped he might have as a child, but for some reason there are vestiges of his existence that haven’t gone quietly.

So when the question regarding Santa’s existence arises, I support sustaining a child’s belief in him for several reasons. The first reason that comes to mind is that—in an often-overlooked way—he kind of does exist. 


I’m not saying he literally lives in the North Pole with elves, and I’m not just talking about St. Nick. I’m talking about the Santa Claus living in a child’s imagination, because that Santa still does have priceless value in the reality we encounter everyday.

Most adults hold onto the same sense of wonder they had when they believed in Santa Claus—it’s just manifested in different ways. Take Star Wars for example. It’s a fictitious story, but if I said, “The Star Wars movies, and all the books, media, and culture surrounding Star Wars, really haven’t impacted our world that much,” then many people—Star Wars fans or not—would raise an eyebrow or two. We all know the story has had a huge impact on our world.

Can something have an impact on our real world if it isn’t real itself in some way? I’m not convinced it can. Star Wars is a very real saga with very real movies, real video games, real action figures, real books and a really strong influence on various cultures and subcultures. Even though we know the actual events and characters aren’t real, the story still exists in many hearts and minds in a very real way.

Santa, like Star Wars, is not a part of our primary reality that we can see, touch, taste, smell and hear; but he is part of a secondary reality we can imagine and viscerally feel. Most people would agree, stories like Miracle on Thirty-Fourth Street can touch us more deeply than anything in our real lives at times.

For generations, Santa has been a ubiquitous source of joy and charity during the Christmas season, and—while he may not have flying reindeer—we still sustain the folklore involving him. Why do we bother? Because there’s something about the songs, old-fashioned movies, and decorations that point to a person and place beyond our everyday reality. The etherealness of Christmas folklore makes it all real in it’s own unique way, and reality wouldn’t be the same without it.

The Value of a Childhood

There is something children have always known and adults tend to forget: Many things exist beyond the physical universe, and it’s these things that truly animate us—giving us the audacity to dream.

Unless you turn and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 18:3).

When I think of Santa Claus, I don’t think of the consumerist icon that’s decried by some Christians. I think of the Christmas Eves when I would hear boots on the roof and the jingle of bells with every step, then a big jubilant laugh. Sure, part of me said, “That laugh sounds kind of like my dad,” but I don’t think my childhood would have been the same without those nights before Christmas.

It was all part of a great family tradition, and our parents knew its importance. The phase where we imagine and believe the impossible is an essential part of every childhood. When we played pretend as children, part of us knew the things we pretended weren’t real, but part of us also understood the importance of believing there was at least some truth to it all. What would childhood be without that power of imagination, without that sense of wonder? To deprive a child of that by not teaching the lore of Santa Claus would be like telling him to skip over a chapter in the book of life.

And Then There Was Christ

Probably the most important part of learning about Santa Claus is the way his story seamlessly leads into learning about the birth of Christ.

Santa 1A child’s years of accepting the truth about Santa, and learning the true meaning of Christmas, can be an illumination rather than a reality check. Those years can be gently intertwined with the story of a bishop from the Middle Ages who put gifts in the stockings of the poor when no one was looking overnight, so they may know the humbling love and charity of Christ on the solemnity of his birth.

When I was a child, around Christmas time my mother would put out a statue of Santa kneeling before the Christ child in a manger, reminding us of how this great bearer of gifts is humbled by the greatest gift of all: the Lord of the universe becoming an infant. My mother then taught us that we give gifts on Christmas to celebrate Christ as a gift to the world, and that on his birthday he wants everyone else to receive presents rather than receive them himself.

As I grew older, the evergreen Christmas tree became a symbol for everlasting life, and not just something pretty under which to place presents. My anticipation the night before Christmas became anticipation for the lighting of each Advent candle. Christmas morning’s gifts dimmed in the light of joy and charity I saw shining in people’s eyes—even during the darkest and shortest days of the year. The spirit of anticipation instilled within me as a child through December now has a different kind of potency, as I notice the new graces the infant Jesus has in store for me in the coming year.

The seed of wonder planted in me as a child by the mythical story of Santa Claus prepared me to accept the miraculous story of Christ. When I learned Santa wasn’t real, I wouldn’t have accepted it unless there was a better story to take its place. And to this day, you can’t tell me that God becoming man isn’t real. I believe every myth is told to sustain our capacity to believe the “true myth” of the Incarnation. All great myths have some truth in them, since they appeal to the universal desire for the true story that began with Christ’s birth.

What are your thoughts on the matter? Do you think Santa Claus makes it easier or harder to teach children the true meaning of Christmas?

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  • Wonderful article! This has been a spark flickering in my heart for more
    years than I can count. And now as a reverted Catholic struggling
    through the thickets of this reality at this particular time, I think
    I’m finally seeing what has been trying to ignite that period of time.
    Thank you for the article and here are some of my own thoughts for what
    its worth. Not that anyone will probably bother reading.

    I do
    believe now, that we give more honor to the world of materialism and
    consumerism to give gifts without Santa, than with him. That is to give
    in the spirit of Santa. Otherwise, all that remains is what gift I am
    giving to you, and what you are giving to me. Even if it is from the
    heart and there is no tit-for-tat, it boils down to, I get the credit
    for this thing I gave you. And the the Spirit of Christmas, which for a
    child is personified by Santa, is practically absent. Is not giving in
    the Spirit of something other than our selves, even larger than
    ourselves, and the credit going to the Spirit, instead of ourselves, not
    the primary message of the Gospel? Is it not Santa giving gifts, and us
    parents not getting the credit precisely what Jesus challenges us to
    do? So then is not the embodiment of that personified in Santa?

    Santa, I’d rather not give gifts at all. Because then I feel I’ve made
    it just another thing to check of my list. The key is to not do that
    either way. Whether utilizing the story of Santa or not. The dilemma is
    that without the aid of Santa, we can’t help but ONLY end up doing that.
    The child’s imagination of Santa is the very thing which frees us
    adults to escape the consumerism of it all. Which lends probable cause
    for the evil one to then skew Santa into seeming like consumerism to an
    adult. Especially ones devoted to Jesus. And our rational adult minds
    walk right into the trap.

    So why would God choose a Santa as the
    embodiment of the Spirit, and not just directly Jesus, who is the True
    meaning and the True Spirit of Christmas? Because that WOULD crumble the
    very fabric of Christianity itself. To start your life with Christ
    giving you presents, only to find out it was only just your parents, is
    to say that everything about Jesus is a hoax and would be best avoided.
    And to simply have Jesus’ Birth as the cause for you receiving presents,
    as wonderful as that is is then merely a straight forward story from
    the past that lends cause to you getting stuff. Where is there then left
    room for the imagination to grow and explode! I could not have easily
    begun to conceive the idea that Jesus passed through the womb of Mary
    like light through glass, even though the evidence is there, if I first
    hadn’t had the imagination of Beauty implanted in me by the Spirit of
    Christmas. By directing the attention onto another, the Spirit is
    permitted to spark and grow in the hearts, minds, imaginations, and
    creativity of every little boy and girl. Which they are going to need
    someday when they also being to forget the True Reality, which is only
    truly known by the innocence of children, and pick up the false one that
    we adults inevitably partake in.

    Merry Christmas and Many Blessing to you my Brother in Christ!!

    • Thank you, Paul. You make many great points. Many do forget the point of Santa Claus, but I also believe that ultimately he points to Christ and the spirit of charity.

      • Precisely! Couldn’t agree more. I didn’t venture on to that particular point as I had already written so much, but it makes a great deal of sense to me to think about Good Ole St. Nick the
        way we view a sacramental? As a sacramental points us towards the
        Sacraments which in turn points us towards Christ, so too Santa points us towards Christ, since there is no Santa
        without St. Nicholas and there is no St. Nicholas without Christ.

  • Thank you David. I grew up with Santa, and offer him to our four children, although I sometimes wonder if we should, feeling it is lying to them… You make a good argument.

    I also wanted to point out to you that the 12 days of Christmas is not during Advent, but rather starts on Christmas day, and ends on January 6, the Epiphany.

    Enjoy the this last week of Advent, these O Antiphon days, and have a Blessed Christmas!

  • Thank you, David AND Paul! I really needed to ponder this today as I am stressed about rushing around trying to finish my shopping and worrying that I won’t make people happy with the gifts I choose for them. I am inspired to write “Santa” in the “from” line, instead of my own, on ALL the gifts I give….extended family members….baking gifts, etc. Merry Christmas to all! Blessings for the year ahead! <3

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